How to Find True Friends: One of the Best Gifts I Ever Received

Daily writing prompt
Share one of the best gifts you’ve ever received.

One of the best gifts I ever received was a bottomless wallet. When I first got it, I thought the money inside it was the best thing in the world, but instead, I discovered what the real gift was.

One day, I found an abandoned wallet on the street and opened it. Nothing was inside. My friend, standing across from me, said, “Wouldn’t it be nice if you had a thousand dollars in there?” 

“Yes, but it’s empty,” I said, opening the wallet again to show her, and saw several bills inside. Hundreds of hundred dollar bills, totaling a thousand dollars. “I can’t believe it!” I exclaimed. 

“It’s magic!” My friend took the money out of my hand. “I’m buying a purse and some jewelry,” she said. “I can finally afford to!” And she ran off.

“Hey, wait for us!” I said. Stunned, I stared at the empty wallet in my hand.

“What if there’s a hundred-dollar bill in there?” My other friend was still standing around.

“No way.”

She took the wallet from my hand, opened it, and pulled out a hundred-dollar bill. 

“Maybe you should ask for more money,” I said.

“No, this is enough,” she smiled. “Want to go get some food? Let’s celebrate our good luck with a fancy dinner,” she said.

Valentine’s Day: Some Interesting Facts and Humor

Valentine’s Day isn’t just for couples. It’s a day for everyone. If you’re single, make it a day for self-care and appreciating yourself. If you have a significant other, it’s a day to show that person how much you care about them. 

Here are some fun facts and Valentine’s Day jokes to bring a smile to your day.

What are some interesting facts about the history of Valentine’s Day? 

  • Fancy Boxes were decorated chocolates sold in heart-shaped boxes in 1868 for Valentine’s Day.
  • Early versions of printed Valentine’s Day cards appeared in the early 1900s. These cards were printed in factories.
  • The chalky, heart-shaped conversation candies that appear around Valentine’s Day were first created as lozenges. They became heart-shaped in 1902.
  • The remote ordering and delivery of flowers to loved ones was pioneered in 1910.
  • The slogan “A Diamond is Forever” first appeared in 1948 to introduce the idea that expensive jewelry expresses love.
  • In Korea, women give chocolates to men to show their affection on Valentine’s Day (February 14). On White Day (March 14), men return their affection to women with white gifts, such as white chocolate and lingerie (although dark chocolate and other colors and gifts are also accepted now). On Black Day (April 14), singles (who didn’t receive anything on Feb 14 or Mar 14) eat Jjajyangmyeon (Black Noodles) with their single friends. The first two occasions receive the most marketing and event promotion.

Valentine’s Day Humor

(Jokes from the internet)

What’s the best way to get a date for Valentine’s Day? 

Look at a calendar.

How do vampires know if they had a successful Valentine’s Day?

If it’s love at first bite.

How do you keep a jewelry store safe on Valentine’s Day?

You locket.

Why didn’t the skeleton want to send any Valentine’s Day cards?

His heart wasn’t in it.

What did the stamp say to the envelope on Valentine’s Day?

I’m stuck on you!

What did one plate say to the other on Valentine’s Day? 

Tonight, dinner’s on me.

The Best People to Be Around

Daily writing prompt
Who are your favorite people to be around?

There is a saying: you are the average of the five people you hang around with the most. Do you think there is some truth to that?

I believe there is.

When you hang around people with similar values, attitudes, and beliefs, your opinions affect your relationships with these people. Hard workers will inspire you to work hard to chase your dreams. If you surround yourself with optimistic, open-minded people, you will be with others who are always open to trying new things or learning about new cultures and experiences. 

If you disagree with each other’s morals, either you will tolerate each other and avoid discussing your true feelings to keep the peace, or you will speak your mind and have disagreements. 

If you spend time with people at a similar stage in life, you will have more to talk about, such as sharing ideas about career advancement, parenting, relationships, or retirement plans. 

However, you can also have great relationships, whether professional or personal, with people at another stage in life if you have a lot of common values and interests. For example, if you join a book club, recreational sports team, or games group. 

The people who are my favorite to be around inspire me to be a better person. These are the type of people who always believe in you and are there to support you in achieving your goals. They will lift you up, not pull you down. They are trustworthy and reliable. You can count on them to be there on your best days and worst days.

My favorite people are those who respect who you are and don’t expect you to change to fit in with them. They know that people aren’t perfect and will forgive your mistakes and accept your genuine apologies. They will give you the benefit of the doubt. People are busy. They don’t know what you’re going through, so they will not jump to conclusions about you. They will take the time to get to know you and appreciate you for who you are.

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Happy Lunar New Year: Year of the Dragon

Always have a reason to celebrate! Just one month into 2024 and it is another new year: lunar new year. It’s a time to think about prosperity, good fortune, and good health. It is also a time to visit family and enjoy good food (because we all like to eat).

Traditionally, the lunar new year is a time to pay off debts and clean the house. It’s a great reason to decorate the home and buy new clothes. Red is a popular color at this time of year.

It’s customary to have dinner with family. The younger generation receives lucky money in red envelopes from their parents and grandparents. Business managers may give bonuses in red packets. People indulge in traditional foods, such as dumplings and niango (cake).

This year, 2024, is the year of the dragon, more specifically, the wood dragon. The dragon symbolizes bravery, creativity, and innovation. The dragon is a lucky creature. You will see lions and dragons at celebrations at this time of year. People born in a year of the dragon (2012, 2000, 1988, 1976, 1964, 1952, etc) are charismatic, ambitious, adventurous, and fearless. 

Even if you don’t celebrate Lunar New Year, it’s a great reason to reflect on your own traditions, especially around what brings good luck and bad luck. It’s a chance to think about what new habits you want to develop going forward because this is a time for a new start.

What traditions will you continue in the months ahead? What new beginnings do you want in your life? What new goals will you achieve?

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AI Testing Job Skills Testing vs the Job Interview

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Communication skills are, without a doubt, vital for any job and any career. Effective written or spoken communication is necessary for sending and receiving messages in person, by phone, email, or communication platforms. Communication must also be adjusted for your audience, whether you speak with a co-worker, customer, or supervisor.

Traditionally, employers evaluate a future employee’s communication skills based on the content of their resume, their writing skills in their application, and how they communicate during their interview.

From this assessment, employers determine how suitable the candidate’s communication skills are for their future job. If their assessment is correct, they will have a suitable candidate. If their assessment is wrong, they will have wasted valuable time and resources.

The communication skills required to ace the interview process are not necessarily the same as those needed for the future employee’s job. How we communicate with potential employers is not the same as with customers or supervisors.

One solution is to test a candidate’s communication skills by recreating communication scenarios that are similar to what the future employee will encounter on the job. These scenarios can be duplicated through computerized assessments.

How effective are assessments at determining a candidate’s communication skills? It depends on the skills you are testing and how closely the tests mimic actual work situations.

Testing a Candidate’s Strengths and Weaknesses

Communication skills are one of many soft skills that are transferrable across occupations and industries. Soft skills include leadership, creativity, problem solving, and time management.

Communication skills are more than listening and speaking. They include observation, empathy, and non-verbal communication.

How well can a candidate convey an urgent message to their team? How well can they use technology to understand a customer’s issue and communicate an appropriate solution?

In addition to the job interview, we can ask a candidate to complete a standardized communication test online or complete a language assessment. However, these tests might not evaluate how well the candidate pays attention to detail, shows empathy, or demonstrates active listening.

A skills assessment created for the types of scenarios that a candidate will face on the job will more accurately test their strengths and weaknesses.

Will the candidate be managing teams and multiple projects? An AI test scenario could be a recording of a team member calling in to say he cannot meet the deadline because of a family emergency. In the recording, he summarizes what he has completed and what still needs to be done.

As part of the test, the candidate records their response on the phone call. Do they show empathy in their response? Do they show active listening skills when they repeat the details of what needs to be assigned to another team member? How clearly do they articulate their message if the test requires a timed response?

This is just one example of using AI assessments to determine how a candidate will communicate in a workplace situation.

Test for Specific Types of Communication

To decide what types of communication to include in an assessment, an employer first needs a clear and detailed description of the future employee’s job. What will be their responsibilities on a day-to-day basis? Who will they interact with? What problems will they need to solve?

When the employer has created this description, the next step is to determine what communication skills are needed to perform those tasks.

Some skills that employers often test for include:

  • Active listening: Showing the speaker that the listener is involved by nodding, paraphrasing what was said, or asking questions that show the listener heard what was said.
  • Comprehension skills: Understanding and responding to straightforward or complex workplace problems.
  • Language proficiency: Articulating clearly and efficiently the speaker’s message to the audience.
  • Problem solving: Providing a solution in a clear, concise manner with minimal or no errors.
  • Social skills: Dealing with customers or co-workers, particularly if there has been a misunderstanding or the other person is emotionally distressed over an issue.
  • Adaptability: Handling new situations that were not taught in training or haven’t previously occurred at the workplace.

After deciding what types of communication skills to test for, the next step is to create a test that can accurately assess a candidate’s strengths and weaknesses for these skills.

Why Use an AI Communication Skills Test?

AI software has greatly improved over time. Assessments provide a more accurate evaluation of the candidate’s communication skills, allowing recruiters and employers to assess a candidate’s suitability for a specific role.

These tests can be completed as part of the interview process at the employer’s office or at the candidate’s home after logging into the testing system.

As technology continues to advance, companies have changed how they operate. More people can work from home, meaning companies have become more global. One company can hire employees from multiple cities and even other countries.

The benefit is without the limitation of location, companies can hire the candidate with the best skill set for the role, regardless of where the candidate lives. However, communication skills become even more crucial with remote teams if employees no longer meet in person.

With these changes to companies, communication skills become even more vital. How will the candidate handle problem solving when working at home? How will they use the technology to communicate by email, phone, or communication apps to solve a customer’s issue or work with team members they have never met?

With AI communication testing, the employer can re-create scenarios that occur with their customers. The candidate will complete a typical scenario they will encounter by phone or email on the job.

Their answer is then recorded and evaluated. Unlike standard testing, with AI assessments, more than one answer is possible. The candidate might not know the correct answer to a question because they are unfamiliar with the company policy or procedure. However, the employer can review how the candidate responded and evaluate only the clarity of the answer.  

These communication assessments can evaluate many types of verbal and written communication scenarios between employees and the customers, co-workers, and supervisors.

These customer/employee interactions and employee/co-worker interactions cannot be evaluated in an interview. However, they can be recreated in an AI communications assessment.

Key Takeaways

Communication skills are one of many soft skills vital to one’s ability to perform well on the job. Communication is in many forms: on the phone, by email, through messaging apps, and is more than listening to words and responding. It includes our use of language, empathizing with the speaker, how well we problem solve, and our active listening skills.

When searching for the right candidate for the job, employers need to evaluate the candidate for communication skills, but an accurate assessment isn’t necessarily possible during an interview. An AI assessment recreates typical scenarios that the candidate will encounter when working with customers and their team while on the job.

These more accurate assessments of a candidate’s skill set will result in better hires and a more efficient hiring process.

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