Tag: life goals

  • What’s Something You Used to Believe as a Kid That Seems Ridiculous Now?

    What’s Something You Used to Believe as a Kid That Seems Ridiculous Now?

    When I was growing up, my teachers often told me there was no money to be made in writing. As a child, I accepted that as fact. Writing was something you did for fun, they said, not as a realistic career. Looking back, that belief seems both ridiculous and surprisingly accurate at the same time.

    My teachers were partly right. Most fiction writers never become household names. Very few achieve the success of writers like J.K. Rowling, Stephen King, Toni Morrison, Alice Munro, Charlotte Brontë, or Neil Gaiman. Most novels never end up on school reading lists, in public libraries, or on bestseller shelves. Making a living solely from fiction has always been difficult.

    What my teachers failed to mention was that writing careers extend far beyond novels. There are writers who earn a living through journalism, technical writing, copywriting, grant writing, and corporate communications. Many of these fields pay well and offer opportunities that my teachers simply didn’t mention (or maybe they hadn’t thought to). Had I known about those options, I might have pursued a different career.

    Of course, the writing profession has changed dramatically. Artificial intelligence has affected the profession in ways nobody could have predicted. AI tools can help generate articles, outlines, and even entire books. This has lowered barriers to entry (so it’s easier to become a writer), but it has also created new challenges. Talented writers are sometimes accused of using AI when their work is entirely their own. Others face pressure to lower their rates because technology can produce content more quickly.

    In the end, my teachers were neither completely right nor completely wrong. There’s money to be made in writing, but you need to choose the job carefully. Today, the challenge is not just writing well—it’s proving the value of human creativity in a time when anyone can generate words at the click of a button.

    Daily writing prompt
    What’s something you used to believe as a kid that seems ridiculous now?

  • How to Make New Year’s Resolutions You Will Keep

    How to Make New Year’s Resolutions You Will Keep

    Should you make New Year’s resolutions? A quick search on the internet revealed that only 8% will achieve their resolutions for the year. That statistic suggests that it may be easier not to make resolutions at all! However, by making one small change, you can make New Year’s resolutions that you will keep.

    I admit that I’ve made resolutions in the past and failed to achieve them. Over the years, I’ve alternated between making resolutions and deciding they are a hopeless cause. For 2021, I’ve decided to return to making a few New Year’s resolutions that I will achieve by year’s end. Here is my strategy for making this year a successful one for setting goals.

    Firstly, I’m going to make my list compact and realistic. I have a habit of making an ambitious list with 10 to 20 items, a smorgasbord of personal, professional, health, and financial goals. The list was more of a description of my ideal reality instead of what I really could accomplish. For example, writing a fiction novel was one of my resolutions for many years. But as the years progressed, time and time again, I got sidetracked with writing projects that immediately paid the bills.

    This year, I’ve chosen three main goals that are achievable. To check if my goals are achievable, I’ve made a list of questions for myself. For example, is my goal aligned with my career priorities? Is my goal aligned with my life priorities for 2021 (not any time five years into the future)? Have I made a step-by-step plan that I can easily follow from day to day and week to week? Goals are easier to complete if you break them down into smaller pieces.

    With only three main goals, it’s easier to track what I’ve done. Each week, I’ll check how much progress I made on my goal. I will reward myself for working on the goal, even if my progress is as small as baby steps. Sometimes we judge ourselves too harshly and we become discouraged if we don’t get as far as we like.

    Finally, have a clear end point in mind. “Writing a bunch of blogs” does not have a clear end goal, but “writing five blogs a week” is crystal clear. If I have been writing five blogs a week for twelve months, then at the end of 2021, I will have succeeded at my goal.

    Flexibility is important also. If I find writing five blogs a week is too overwhelming, then I’ll change or modify the goal to make it more achievable. For example, I’ll write five short blogs instead of long ones, or write only three long blog posts.

    Resolutions are achievable! Keep your resolutions simple and realistic and constantly track your progress.

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