(How the Internet Changed Everything)
I remember the sounds of life before the internet. Before we heard the ding of message notifications or the screeching sounds of amber alerts or weather alerts, we recognized the clunk of the mailbox lid shutting, the rustle of a newspaper unfolding, the beeps as we pressed the number buttons on a phone, the static hum of the radio as it searched for a clear signal. Life before the internet wasn’t quiet, but it sure sounded different.
If you wanted to play with your neighbors, you walked up to their door and knocked on it, and then you’d play with the neighbor’s kids until it was time for dinner, and your parents had no way to figure out where exactly you were until then!
TV shows had a rigid schedule- no streaming, no video on demand. You could record the show, but if you didn’t, it was like a live event. You couldn’t hit the Pause button if your parents started talking to you. You could only hope to catch that missing moment when you’re available for the rerun–whenever that was.
You bought stuff you wouldn’t buy now because it was a waste of money. If you drove (or if your parents drove) around a lot for vacations or local day trips, you bought a lot of road maps and map books. It was also handy to have a set of encyclopedias. Of course, if you’re still doing your research from them for a school project, you hoped that your facts were up to date enough! And of course, things could serve double duty. Those thick White Pages were good for door stoppers and steps to help you reach the top shelf.
Back then, you learned the magic of waiting. Snail mail took weeks–first, it took several days for your letter to reach its destination, then days for the reply to arrive in your mailbox (assuming the recipient wrote back immediately). You were more selective about picture taking because each photo cost money, and you had to wait in anticipation to see how a picture you took a few days or months ago turned out!
Back then, we had connection, but in a different way. If you liked walking while talking on the phone, chances were, you experienced the phone cord yanking the receiver out of your hand if you walked too far. If you liked a boy at school, you had to brave talking to his parents if he wasn’t the one to answer your call; this was one way to get to know his family.
Of course, the internet has given us so much. The convenience of streaming TV shows so our entertainment revolves around our schedules, not vice versa. The efficiency of finding someone you’re trying to meet by sharing a location pin. The closeness of seeing and hearing your loved one in a live video call from another country.
And then there’s the mix of the old and the new. I’ve arrived at a friend’s house and stood within arm’s reach of the working doorbell. Send a text when you’re outside! she said. So I pull out my phone, type “Here,” and wait for the door to open instead of knocking on it. This is life after the internet.
What do you think?
And for nostalgia, here’s that dial-up sound of the early internet.
Vanya Wryter Consulting Services 
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