Imagine being able to see exactly where you’ll be in ten years. You see vivid snapshots of your future life: your career, your relationships, your finances, even the food you’re going to be eating. That ability seems like one of the best things that could happen to you. You’ll know what’s coming and you can prepare for it.
This foresight could be incredible.
If you’re destined for success in your career, you can reverse-engineer every step. You’ll know which skills to learn, which certifications to complete, and which companies to apply to. You’ll even know who to connect with—and who to stay away from. No wasting time climbing the wrong corporate ladder or chasing dead-end ideas. Your financial literacy would be your strong suit–you’ll know what to invest in, how long to invest in something, and when to take advantage of the best prices for homes, appliances, or vacation deals.
Your personal life could be a dream too. If you know how your relationships end, you can skip heartbreaks and toxic friendships. You’d avoid the wrong life partner and stay away from messy family drama. No messy breakups, no horrible family memories. You’d choose your friendships more carefully, hold onto the ones who matter, and spend your time where it truly counts.
But as pretty as that future may seem, there is also a major downside: you’d also miss out on something essential—the life lessons.
Maybe the heartbreak you skip would’ve made you better at communication in relationships. Maybe the job you don’t apply for would’ve given you a painful but valuable career lesson. Trial and error isn’t always pleasant, but the good and bad memories are equally necessary for growth. Avoiding pain is safe, but without the ugly lessons, we won’t appreciate the beautiful moments as much.
So where do I see myself in ten years? I wish I could see the future so I would know what to expect. What technology should I buy? Should I go on that trip next year? Will I have published my book?
It would be great to have all the answers today so I can better prepare for that future. Learn faster, love smarter, and coast through a succession of happy moments. But the journey there, through the path of the unknown, could be just as worthwhile an adventure!

A thought provoking post – including not wasting time “chasing dead-end ideas” – on one hand and on the other – you could “miss out on something essential—the life lessons.”
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Good advice – I need to make sure I follow it too!
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These are some ideas and thoughts we can all remember!
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Thanks!
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You’re welcome!
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Great post! I would prefer to go with the flow because looking into the future might scare the mess out of me!
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I think so! The future can be scary!
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It sure can be!!!!
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Good
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At a certain age, 10 years in the future is probably spent gazing upward from underground.
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Very true.
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If one can look through the solid ground…
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If there were possible…
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