Category: Work Skills

  • What’s Something You Used to Believe as a Kid That Seems Ridiculous Now?

    What’s Something You Used to Believe as a Kid That Seems Ridiculous Now?

    When I was growing up, my teachers often told me there was no money to be made in writing. As a child, I accepted that as fact. Writing was something you did for fun, they said, not as a realistic career. Looking back, that belief seems both ridiculous and surprisingly accurate at the same time.

    My teachers were partly right. Most fiction writers never become household names. Very few achieve the success of writers like J.K. Rowling, Stephen King, Toni Morrison, Alice Munro, Charlotte Brontë, or Neil Gaiman. Most novels never end up on school reading lists, in public libraries, or on bestseller shelves. Making a living solely from fiction has always been difficult.

    What my teachers failed to mention was that writing careers extend far beyond novels. There are writers who earn a living through journalism, technical writing, copywriting, grant writing, and corporate communications. Many of these fields pay well and offer opportunities that my teachers simply didn’t mention (or maybe they hadn’t thought to). Had I known about those options, I might have pursued a different career.

    Of course, the writing profession has changed dramatically. Artificial intelligence has affected the profession in ways nobody could have predicted. AI tools can help generate articles, outlines, and even entire books. This has lowered barriers to entry (so it’s easier to become a writer), but it has also created new challenges. Talented writers are sometimes accused of using AI when their work is entirely their own. Others face pressure to lower their rates because technology can produce content more quickly.

    In the end, my teachers were neither completely right nor completely wrong. There’s money to be made in writing, but you need to choose the job carefully. Today, the challenge is not just writing well—it’s proving the value of human creativity in a time when anyone can generate words at the click of a button.

    Daily writing prompt
    What’s something you used to believe as a kid that seems ridiculous now?

  • What’s a moment that made you question reality?

    What’s a moment that made you question reality?

    More than once these days, I watch a video about something that seems to defy reality and I question what I’m looking at. Is it even real? Can my cat cook me dinner? And then I go to the comments and someone says, “This is AI.” What a trick! It’s scary, the speed at which AI has slipped into everyday life. One minute it was science fiction, and the next it’s everywhere. 

    You can’t even write an email without a recommendation for AI to write it for you. How about doing something more useful? (Please, AI, make me my lunch. I’m too lazy to cook!)

    It’s both fascinating and unsettling.

    AI is Good

    AI can be incredibly useful, especially if you run your own business and you don’t have the funds to hire three staff members without giving up your child’s college tuition. It can handle repetitive office tasks faster than people. It can also analyze data if you prompt it correctly. But you still need human oversight, or it can reach some oddball conclusions.

    One way AI makes you question reality is by generating scenes that never happened. Not fake news. But reenactments of scenes from the past. Reading pages out of history books can be boring. Hiring actors and creating sets can be expensive. So using AI to recreate the past, such as a scene from the Ice Ages, is educational. I call this a benefit.

    But there’s another side to it that makes reality feel a little unstable.

    AI is Bad

    AI systems can “hallucinate,” confidently giving wrong information that sounds completely believable. That means people still need to double-check the AI’s work, even while depending on it more every day. AI once gave me advice to do something real humans wouldn’t do. That really made me question this new reality of AI assistance.

    Another scary moment was when I was watching a video by a creator I follow. Then I clicked on the profile and realized it wasn’t her. It was a series of AI-generated videos using her likeness and voice. I had been deceived!

    Key takeaways

    AI creates moments that make me question reality. Sometimes it’s for a good reason (accurate historical enactment) and sometimes bad (stealing someone’s work). Overall, we’re getting closer to living out those sci-fi movies we used to watch!

    Daily writing prompt
    What’s a moment that made you question reality?

  • When do you feel most productive?

    When do you feel most productive?

    When do you feel most productive? I find most people have a straightforward answer, like “morning” or “night,” but for me, the answer is, “it depends.” For me, productivity depends entirely on the type of work I’m doing, whether it’s creative work, routine office work, or routine housework. (I’m unpredictable.)

    Mornings are best for my structured, routine tasks like meetings, email, and office work. It’s not all that exciting but it’s predictable, and I like getting those tasks all done earlier in the day. Same with housework for some reason. If I finish dusting the room and I get to see how clean it is in the sunlight, there’s a wonderful feeling of accomplishment that gets me through the rest of the day. 

    Evenings are when my night owl personality comes out. That’s when creativity kicks in. Writing, brainstorming, and deeper thinking crawl out of the shadows and into the moonlight. My mind is free to wander and that’s often when the best ideas are born.

    This contrast is exactly why having flexibility in your schedule is important. Having control over your time or running your own business allows you to align your work with your natural body rhythms. Instead of fighting against your energy levels, you can work in sync with them.

    A strict 9-to-5 schedule can make this balance harder to achieve, and not everyone can have the luxury of deciding their schedule! I remember when I used to work a 9-to-5 and one time I was so sleepy that I forced myself to stay awake and type. I fell out of my chair, which jolted me awake – and this is my reasoning for a flexible schedule!

    Understanding when you work best—and adjusting accordingly—is the best way to handle productivity. You’re not fighting your body or doing embarrassing things like falling asleep at the keyboard. 

    Daily writing prompt
    When do you feel most productive?

  • Which aspects do you think make a person unique?

    Which aspects do you think make a person unique?

    Learning Languages as an Adult

    Each person is unique, especially in how they learn languages as an adult.

    Kids start from scratch, like a blank document. Adults already have plenty of files stored in their brain. By the time you’re learning a new language as an adult, you might have been exposed to it in random ways—through family, movies, music, or just hearing it while growing up. So it’s not like you’re a true beginner. You already know something, even if it’s in disorganized pieces. Here’s my experience, using learning Chinese as a second language. 

    First example: you might mix up the grammar of your first and second languages, and speak a Chinese sentence with English grammar. Oops. You sound like a weirdo. But you know how to swear perfectly because you hear the words in movies and spoken by friends who are fluent. 

    Second example: you’re a polyglot. You’ve learned a bunch of languages at the beginner level. So you walk into a store in Montreal and all you can think of is how to say, “How much is this?” in Japanese. Or you’re in Tokyo, and you can only remember how to say a sentence in French. Or, more frustratingly still, you’re in Tokyo, and you can read the kanji, and you need help because you’re lost. But you can only remember the Chinese pronunciation (not the Japanese) of the kanji on the street signs, making you both literate but unable to communicate.

    Pronunciation is another funny thing if you’re trying to learn a language that you’ve heard for years but don’t speak it often. You’re not native, but you’re also not a beginner. For example, in English, you go from “I want to learn it” to “I wanna learn it” when you’re speaking more fluently. But as a non-native speaker who’s been exposed to Chinese for years, I will say the Chinese equivalent to “I wanna learn it so bad.” I’ll say a sentence that they don’t teach you in classes – something you learn from native speakers – but my pronunciation is a tad off… not quite native, and not a beginner either. 😂

    So what makes people unique isn’t just what they learn—it’s all the random, imperfect stuff they bring with them while learning.

    Daily writing prompt
    Which aspects do you think makes a person unique?

  • 5 Tips to Evaluate a Good Judge of Character

    5 Tips to Evaluate a Good Judge of Character

    We all wish we could be good judges of character, but we aren’t always successful. I’m not the best at it, but here are my tips on judging people’s character, based on my own limited experience! Let me know if you’ve got tips to add to the list!

    1. Observe How They Treat People Beneath Them

    A truly insightful person understands that character is revealed not by how someone treats their boss, but by how they interact with those they consider as having lower status—waitstaff, cleaning staff, or subordinates. People of good character respect others and treat them like equals. 

    2. They Don’t Ignore the Small Red Flags

    A common bad habit is giving people “extra chances” and excusing early warning signs. A good judge of character notices minute details—a small lie, manipulation, or a broken promise. They understand that a pattern of bad behavior almost always starts small. If your friend consistently acknowledges these flags, rather than excusing them.

    3. They Set and Maintain Clear Boundaries

    A person with poor judgment often allows others to cross their boundaries, hoping the disrespectful person will change. In contrast, a sharp judge of character uses boundaries as a filter. They set clear rules (e.g., “I won’t tolerate being yelled at”) and enforce them immediately. This shows they value their peace over keeping a problematic person in their life.

    4. They Learn Explicitly From Past Mistakes

    It’s natural to misjudge someone. But an excellent judge of character doesn’t just move on from the bad experience; they engage in active self-reflection. They know why they were fooled, and can identify what they missed. 

    5. They Wait for Behavior, Not Just Words

    Flattery, charisma, and eloquent speeches are poor indicators of a person’s true personality. A good judge of character evaluates people based on what they do over time—the consistency, reliability, and kindness demonstrated over months, not the short term. If they are slow to trust, they are likely a very wise judge of human nature.

    Daily writing prompt
    Are you a good judge of character?