A Visit With A Friend

Daily writing prompt
If you didn’t need sleep, what would you do with all the extra time?

Dear Friend,

Thank you for letting me stay at your home for the past month. It was my first time in the big city and my first time away from home! I loved all the dessert places you took me to. The cookies and hot chocolate were wonderful. As with all good things, though, my time here has come to an end and it’s time to go home now that it’s winter and the holidays are approaching.

Back home, no one sleeps at this time of year. The factory and workshop are open, and everyone works 24/7. It’s an important month! We are busy making toys. Millions upon millions of toys. We have the most advanced technology tracking all children and what toys they requested so that we can make them. I don’t know how we managed to get all those orders done on time before we had computers! I’m needed back home where I can help!

During the weeks before Christmas, my job is to read letters from children and reply to them. We get thousands of letters! Then, on Christmas Eve, I help Santa load the toys on the sleigh. Then, on Christmas morning, we breathe a high sigh of relief for a job well done when Santa returns.

This is what life is like at home at this time of year. I’m looking forward to going back. Next year, I hope to visit you again!

With much love,

Sammi Elf

Why Learn Another Language?

With today’s global economy and advances in technology, companies hire and work with people worldwide, so it is increasingly important to be aware of cultural differences. Learning a language for networking and business purposes has many advantages, even if you only know a few words.

The English language is convenient for communicating with people around the world. It is one of the most spoken languages worldwide. According to the World Economic Forum, “Of the approximately 1.5 billion people who speak English, less than 400 million use it as a first language….That means over 1 billion speak it as a secondary language.”

Imagine traveling to another country where English isn’t the primary language, and you can’t understand anyone or read anything around you? How relieved would you feel if someone asked, “Need some help” in English? Even a few simple words in a common language can create a connection and start a conversation. 

Creating a connection is the first step to networking or building a relationship, whether for friendship or business. Here are three powerful reasons for learning a language and connecting with people.

1 Languages Create a Cultural Connection

Food is a great connector. An event that involves sampling foods from other countries and cultures is one way to get people to experience cultures. Learning the names of foods is a sensory experience: learn a new vocabulary word and taste the food it corresponds to.

It opens discussions about similarities and differences in food, culture, and language. It can be humbling when you struggle with the pronunciation of a new word; fascinating when you realize the meaning of a new word.

It’s amazing what conversations you can begin by learning a handful of new words and key phrases in another language. (We’re talking about the good words here, not the bad words. People like to learn the bad words, but it’s a different result when you swear at people.)

It’s a great feeling to say, “Nice to meet you” or “Have a safe trip home” in another person’s native language. Another benefit to learning new words is gaining a better understanding of a person’s values from their culture.

2 Languages Broaden Your Way of Thinking

A Google search will reveal many articles that say a person’s personality can change depending on their language. Personality traits are determined by culture, and culture and language are deeply connected. So it seems learning a language helps you to absorb the culture.

Even if you don’t become fluent in multiple languages, learning another language helps you understand other cultures and how people think, and potentially avoid misunderstandings.

For example, in some Asian languages, people are addressed by their titles as a form of respect. Family members are named by their relationship to the speaker. A paternal aunt is called a different word for “aunt” than a maternal aunt.  

Knowing the degree of formality that people use to greet each other gives you insights into how people may want to be addressed. For example, in Brazil, young children call their teacher tia or tio (aunt/uncle) + first name. In France, students say Monsieur (Mr) or Madame (Mrs) + last name. In China, students call their teacher only Lǎoshī (teacher). Similarly, students in Latvia call their teacher Skolotāj (schoolteacher).

People may struggle when speaking English because in their first language, there are more ways to say something. For example, English has three choices for articles (a, an, the) but other languages have more. In French, nouns can be masculine singular or plural, or feminine singular or plural, increasing your choices.

In Japanese, you have even more choices when talking about the number of objects. The way you say “one of” or “two of” something (people, cats, beer, apples, houses) depends on the type of noun. (Learning numbers takes several lessons.)

Languages may have concepts that don’t exist in another language. For example, the need to talk about snow with precision has created several words in some cultures: There are 52 words for snow and ice in Inuktituk while the BBC news reports Scotland has 421 words for snow! 

Learning someone’s name or your name is a fun way to start a conversation and connect with people in another language. Learning how to address someone in another language also tells you a lot about levels of formality and respect.

New words and expressions are like a window into another culture from a marketing and sales perspective. It’s a way to approach people in other markets.

On another level, learning to say a few words is a warm way to start a conversation and make new friends.

3 Languages Increase Your Opportunities

Being a polyglot or being bilingual has many advantages. If your company has offices in other countries, you could be asked to help with translation.

Translation could occur in many forms, such as interpreting between languages during meetings or checking over written communications in another language. 

You could be offered opportunities that aren’t usually part of your job description; for example, you could be a connector. If your company needs people who are fluent in a language you know, they may ask you to connect them to people from that language community. 

Your willingness to step in and help out with translation could open doors to other opportunities or, at the very least, add an important role or achievement to your resume. 

The best part of learning new languages for work is making connections with people who visit from other parts of the world.

Key Takeaways

Learning another language – or even a handful of words in another language – is a way to start a conversation and connect with people. Language is so closely tied with culture that you can discover a lot about a culture’s values.

How many expressions can you say in another language? What language would you like to learn next?

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What If You Couldn’t Lie?

What if you couldn’t lie? I just read an article asking the question, what would you get rid of from the world? There was a range of answers, from hatred and greed to prejudice. These aren’t pet peeves, but one answer from the question stood out because it could be a pet peeve. It’s lying. 

Now imagine if lying were eliminated from the world. This would eliminate some false friends: those who pretend to care about you when they don’t. For example, they’ll say they’re excited about going to your party, but they’re waiting for the right time and a last-minute excuse to cancel.

On a more global level, this would eliminate false claims from politicians who do not intend to keep their campaign promises. It would also put an end to false advertising. No more claims that a product can make you slimmer if you eat it.

Of course, not being able to lie could cause issues as well. For instance, your spouse cooks a dish that tastes terrible. Your spouse knows the salty, flat cake isn’t delicious. But it’s still edible, so you take a few bites. “Good,” you say to your spouse in encouragement. 

Not being able to lie can cause bigger issues. For example, if you live in a dangerous situation, not being able to lie can jeopardize your safety. If you have an abusive spouse, you can lie and say that you’re going shopping for groceries when you are in fact, planning your escape by finding a safe place to move to and getting professional help and resources.

Overall, I think people lying can be a pet peeve. If a close friend lies, it is disrespectful and can destroy your trust in that friend, and make you question your trust in all friends. On the other hand, removing the act of lying from existence isn’t wise either. A child with an abusive parent can lie about going to the library while they go to a friend’s house where they feel safe until it’s time to go home again.

Should lying disappear from the world? Hard to say. It depends on the reason for telling a lie.

Daily writing prompt
Name your top three pet peeves.

What’s Under Your Bed?

The coolest thing I have ever found and kept is a shiny new spoon. It took me all night to drag a shiny spoon under the bed. The spoon is my favorite treasure. I love to look at my reflection in it. I have such pretty yellow eyes and a mouth that is a black hollow that opens and closes. So interesting! Until I had found the spoon, I hadn’t known what I looked like.

I’ve found other things, such as coins, that roll under the furniture. I once grabbed a stray baby’s sock that fell out of the laundry basket and pulled it under the couch. The sock keeps me warm from my neck to my feet during cold winter nights. One time during breakfast, a blueberry rolled onto the kitchen floor. I grabbed it, tucked it under my arm, and ran, following a ray of sunlight until I could hide behind a basket.

There are so many intriguing things in this house. I even have a collection of giant buttons. They fell off a blue shirt and a gray sweater. The buttons are so big! When I hold the biggest one up, it comes up to my waist!

Yet, the spoon is the coolest thing I’ve ever found. It can reflect the sunlight. I like to gaze into it and see myself.  “Who are you?” I say, and the face there parrots me back. I am not so lonely when I look at it. I feel at home.

Daily writing prompt
What’s the coolest thing you’ve ever found (and kept)?

Do You Stand Out in a Crowd?

What part of my routine would I always skip if I can? I would say it’s my face. Yeah, I can tell by your reaction that you weren’t expecting an answer like that when you asked for this interview. But, like I said over the phone, I’m not like other people that you know.

So while you’re checking your interview notes to see what detail you missed about me, let me explain.

Every day, I go to work, I take the transit like hundreds of other people in this city. I check my phone for the latest news during my ride and then I grab my coffee on the way to the office. I enter data and write reports all day. I say hello to my coworkers on the way to my desk, and goodbye on my way home. Yeah, it sounds boring, but I’m as pleasant and polite as can be.

So what’s this got to do with my face?

Well, everything. No one really knows anyone. No one really knows me.

My coworkers and my boss call me reliable and hardworking. But they couldn’t tell you a darn thing about my favorite hobby or favorite food. They think it’s pizza and beer, but that’s because they all have pizza and beer after work when we gather at the pub.

My parents say I’m a good son. I visit them on the weekends. I play with their dog and their cat so they think I like animals. They like going to Europe in the summer and I’m always intrigued by their adventures so they think my dream is to visit Europe.

The reality is, I don’t know what I want. I try so hard to be a people pleaser, that over time, I’ve lost myself. Every day, I put on my face before I walk out that door. That face is the face of the person everyone thinks is me, you know?

But who am I? If I didn’t put on my face, who would they see? 

For once, I wish I had the courage to be late for work because I slept in, so yeah, fire me. Wouldn’t that feel good! I wish I could board the train and start belting out a song and hope everyone joins my impromptu concert. For once, I wish I could say to my parents, I want to go hiking in the mountains, even though I could get lost, and it’s a little dangerous. But I’m not brave enough.

I guess I’m too scared to see the faces of the people around me go from acceptance to shock. So I guess the answer to your question, “What part of your routine do you always try to skip if you can?” would be, “not putting on my face.” I always try to go out as the real me, to skip that step of putting on my fake face, but I always run back. No one will ever see who I really am. I’d rather just be another face in the crowd.

Thanks for reading this post!

Daily writing prompt
What part of your routine do you always try to skip if you can?