Metaphor vs Simile vs Analogy: What is the Difference Between Them?

If you could paint a picture with words, what would that image look like? Writers use many literary devices to raise the quality of their descriptions from good to amazing. Three of these devices are metaphor, simile, and analogy. What are these three devices, and what is the difference between each of them?

Let’s take a look at what metaphors, similes, and analogies are and some famous examples of each. When you can create vivid descriptions using them, whether writing at work or writing a poem to a loved one, you can get your point across so much more effectively.

Metaphors Turn Ideas into Pictures

A metaphor compares two things that are different but have something in common. The comparison is indirect, like saying that one thing is like another.

To create a metaphor, think about the idea that you want to express. For example, you want to say that life sometimes feels unreal. What else feels like it isn’t real? Dreams. Movies. The theatre. When you have these two ideas, write the comparison. For example, we have this famous quote by a famous playwright:

“All the world’s a stage, and all the men and women merely players. They have their exits and their entrances.”

William Shakespeare

A metaphor turns an idea into a vivid image. You can picture an idea, a memory, or a moment that a writer is sharing much more clearly when you use metaphors. Some writers use extended metaphors, which is the same as taking a comparison and expanding it over several sentences.

Hope is the thing with feathers
That perches in the soul
And sings the tune without the words
And never stops at all.

Emily Dickinson

Metaphors are a succinct way to express a comparison as a vivid image.

Similes Describe Ideas Concisely

A simile is like a metaphor. It compares one thing to something else to make the description easier to picture in your mind. You can identify a simile by checking if the comparison uses “like” or “as.”

We use similes often in our everyday communication. They are especially effective because we can use a few concise words to express an entire thought. Think of the last time you said, “It’s raining like cats and dogs” or “that lecture was as exciting as watching paint dry.”

You could say, “He gave me directions that were really hard to understand. They were so confusing that I got lost.” Or you could say, “His directions were as clear as mud.” We’ve all seen mud before, so we understand just how confused you felt.

Similes can be brief and effective, such as this one:

“Life is like writing with a pen. You can cross out your past but you can’t erase it.”

E.B. White

A simile can also be an idea, such as “be like water” and extended to illustrate what it means to behave like water.

Be like water making its way through cracks. Do not be assertive, but adjust to the object, and you shall find a way around or through it. If nothing within you stays rigid, outward things will disclose themselves.

Empty your mind, be formless. Shapeless, like water. If you put water into a cup, it becomes the cup. You put water into a bottle and it becomes the bottle. You put it in a teapot, it becomes the teapot. Now, water can flow or it can crash. Be water, my friend.

Bruce Lee

Think of all the similes you use in everyday communication, in your emails, your texts, and in conversations. What similes do you use to convey your thoughts?

Analogies Explain by Comparing

An analogy is also a comparison between two things, but the purpose is to explain or clarify what you mean. Metaphors and similes are two types of analogies.

We use analogies often in everyday speech. They have found their way into movies and stories, and they are so popular that you can probably list several analogies from what you’ve watched and read.

One well-known analogy is “Life is like a box of chocolates – you never know what you’re gonna get,” fromthe movie Forrest Gump. Just like a box full of chocolates, life has many surprises.

Another is writer E.B. White’s famous words, “Explaining a joke is like dissecting a frog. You understand it better but the frog dies in the process.” Sometimes things are better when you don’t understand everything.

Key Takeaway

An analogy compares two things to make a concise explanation. Two types of analogies are similes and metaphors. A metaphor shows how one thing is like another, while a simile compares using “like” or “as.” Use an analogy whenever you want to explain something vividly, just like snapping a photo of your thoughts. It’s economical, precise, and impactful.

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Signs You’re a Bad Writer… and How to Improve

What is a bad writer? I’ve looked at over a handful of articles in search of an explanation of what makes a bad writer, and everyone seems to have a different point of view. Some say it’s the attitude to writing, and others say it’s poor writing skills, such as bad grammar and punctuation.

Writing is both a skill and a work of art, so you could say a bad writer is a mix of someone with a negative attitude to writing and weak writing skills. So how could a bad writer improve their technique? One way is to start by identifying the signs that they’re a bad writer.

Bad Writer Sign #1: Closed Off to Feedback

Bad writers dislike criticism and become defensive the minute they hear that their work is not perfect. They believe there is only one way to write a paragraph, one way to write a story, and that’s their way. They don’t want to see how a sentence could be rewritten to make the meaning clearer.

A bad writer is closed off to feedback and sees comments as an attack on them as a person. They don’t see constructive feedback as a suggestion on how to improve their writing. Instead, they see the comments as a suggestion that they are flawed as a person.

Bad Writer Sign #2: Working on Projects That Last Forever

Some writers blame writer’s block when they start a writing project and never finish. This project could be a short story, an essay, a poem, or a novel. They work on rewrite after rewrite but they never finish what they start.

Writing takes discipline, from setting goals to setting deadlines for completing those goals. A bad writer is constantly stopping before reaching a milestone such as finishing a chapter or completing the final paragraph of a story.

It’s difficult to improve your writing skills if you’ve never finished your first draft of a piece of writing.

Bad Writer Sign #3: Stale Writing Skills

Bad writers have limited vocabulary and sentence structure. They don’t expand their vocabulary to add more variety to their language. Neither do they try to write their sentences in different ways. Each sentence follows the same pattern so that their writing is repetitious.

When a bad writer doesn’t learn more vocabulary or open themselves to criticism, they may also be unaware of incorrect word use, such as mixing up their, there, and they’re; or similar words such as illusion and allusion.

How to Transition from a Bad Writer to a Good Writer

A good writer isn’t necessarily a perfect writer or the best writer. But a good writer will start by learning what they can about writing. They will finish the first draft and be open to feedback on how they can improve. They will work on revisions so that the third draft is an improvement from the first.

Improving one’s writing skills isn’t easy. To make a comparison, writing is like a muscle that can only be strengthened if you use it. With an open attitude to feedback and learning writing skills, a bad writer could become a good writer over time!

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What is Copywriting?

Stellar copywriting grabs your attention, pushes your buttons, and persuades you to buy a product or service. Good copywriting gets you hooked when you read the first word, but great copywriting is what keeps you reading until the last.

So what is copywriting? It’s more than just putting a bunch of words together on a page. It’s the copy – also called sales copy – used in marketing and promotional materials. There’s a lot more technique to it than the report writing and essay writing they teach you in school. Here’s a closer look at what copywriting is… and what makes it so enticing.

Copywriting Speaks to You

Copywriting is like hearing the voice inside your head speaking to you. You’re having a conversation with the page. The copywriter did a lot of research before writing the first word to really understand you, the reader, and what you’re looking for.

The copywriter carefully crafted the headline to capture your attention and grab your curiosity. You want to know the answer the headline is asking.

Like a trail of breadcrumbs, you’re drawn to the heading, then you read the first sentence to find out more information. But it doesn’t stop there. That first sentence knows exactly what you’re thinking. You had a question, a problem, or a pain point on your mind and that first paragraph just stated what you’re thinking. So you keep reading.

You keep reading that paragraph, and the next and the next until you’ve reached the end, when it asks you to take action and sign up or buy something and you do. The copy is convincing because it understands you.

The Real Nuts and Bolts of Copywriting

It seems seamless and magical, the way the words flow, but there is a technique to crafting killer copy. First, the copywriter researched their audience. They want to know them and what’s on their mind. They’ve asked themselves, “What keeps my reader awake at night?”

When you understand your audience’s pain, you can push their buttons and evoke their emotions. Copywriters tell stories that relate to what their audience has been through, whether it is struggling with finances, business, self-esteem, or relationships.

Second, copywriting is concise and skimmable. The words are short and conversational, without jargon or corporate speak. Copywriting also backs up claims with reputable sources. It claims to have solutions to financial or relationship challenges, and provides evidence that if you take action, what you want can be achieved.

Finally, copywriting has a way of creating urgency. The reader needs to take action, and take action now or miss out. It’s the reader’s chance to solve the problem that’s been on their mind.

Key Takeaways

If you’re wondering, “What is copywriting?” the short answer is copywriting is sales copy. Its purpose is to sell and the techniques are subtle. Copywriting is like reading a conversation with a friend who understands a problem that’s on your mind. It’s this understanding and a sense of urgency that persuades you to take action to find the solution that you need.

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Top 5 Tips for Choosing the Right Realtor

Sandy Gum, Insurance and Private Equity Advisor
Vanya Wryter Consulting

The housing market is hot and people are either talking about buying a home or thinking about buying one. Either way, it’s a major decision, so getting the advice of a professional will help the process go more smoothly. 

Here are five reasons why you should work with a realtor and what you should look out for.

1. Experience and Knowledge of the Buying Process

The right real estate agent for you is someone you feel comfortable working with and is the right fit for what you need. 

This person doesn’t have to be a top sales agent or the most experienced on the team because either may not be what works best for you. Here’s why. Having a top agent definitely has its perks because they are very knowledgeable in their area of expertise.They have a lot of clients who trust them. 

However, they may not have enough time to show you all the places you want to see or listen to you if you have many questions and concerns to address. These realtors may draw on their experience with similar clients and recommend what they think is best for you based on their experience.

Having someone who has the time to listen and put themselves in your shoes is a little different. When someone is not a top agent, they may have more time to take you to more places and listen to your thoughts about each place and what you’re looking for. They’re on the lookout for better things for you.

2. Knowledge of the Local Market and Neighbourhood

When you work with a realtor near you, you’ll have access to knowledge about the local area where you want to buy a home. They can tell you about public transportation options and commuting issues to be aware of. If you have children, they can tell you what schools are in the area. 

A realtor can give you the big picture and tell you what future trends will be, what the market looks like and if it is a good time to buy. Each location is different. As another bonus, a realtor can get good deals that are off the market, although this happens more often in the USA than Canada. You can get some of these off the market deals at a heavily discounted price!  

3. Access to the Realtor’s Network and Resources

In addition to information about a local area, your realtor has contacts to a network. While viewing a home, your realtor (or yourself) may notice something that needs fixing or minor repairs. The realtor can arrange for a quote for the repair or even let you know the approximate cost for the repair based on experience with similar homes. 

They can also recommend a company for repairs or renovations that you would like done prior or move in or after. If you’re new to the area, they can also recommend who you can go to for home insurance, or even a consultation about legal matters.

4. Assistance with the Transaction and Paperwork

You’re probably not looking at real estate documents all the time. A realtor is much more familiar with reviewing those documents and going through those transactions. They may notice details you’re not aware of and can answer questions you may have about the process. 

If you’re buying insurance, your realtor can provide information that the insurance agent will need. For example, they can provide you with the details about the property in order to request a quote from an insurance agent. If any legal issues arise, they have access to a network of lawyers and notaries they can consult on your behalf. 

5. Negotiation and Communication Skills

You want to work with a realtor near you who is neither pushy or nor salesy. When you’ve found a home that you see yourself living in, you want to be able to rely on the realtor’s negotiation skills. They will respect the budget that you’re working with. 

They will also be able to negotiate with the seller to come to a mutual agreement on your behalf. Buying a home can be a stressful process so you want to hire someone you trust to represent you during the negotiation. 

You want to work with a realtor who is a clear communicator and can answer any questions you may have. A realtor who can understand your needs throughout the process can reduce your stress and make this a positive and memorable experience. 

Are you looking to buy or sell a home? Find a realtor near you and use our top five tips to narrow down the right one for you. 

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How to Deal with Harassment at the Workplace

This is an ugly topic, one that’s too hot to touch, or perhaps better off shoved under the furniture where it won’t bother anyone. Problem is, even if you bury it somewhere in the back of your mind, it will come back in the future. For a friend of mine, a harassment at the workplace incident came back to haunt her years later.

Incidents like these are not clear cut. It’s not like a diagram in which you can draw an arrow and label the bad guy and the good guy. Nor can you pinpoint the moment when the incident caused the damage. It’s not like identifying precisely when a sharp object cut your skin.

Her co-worker didn’t even have malicious intent. He thought he was trying to set a good example among the employees. What he didn’t take into consideration was my friend’s past experiences and how they would affect her perception of what happened that day.

That day, she was a new hire meeting the team for the first time. When the day ended, everyone started to say goodbye. The standard practice at the company was to hug each other goodbye, and the team promoted a family type of atmosphere.

That Awkward Moment You Don’t Forget

To her surprise, however, she was being judged on her technique. Her supervisor’s boss felt her goodbye hug was not satisfactory, and he told her his opinion in front of her coworkers. He said she had that loose armed type of hug that kept the other person at a distance. Then he took her aside for a talk on the first landing of the stairs.

He accused her of having low self esteem and poor attitude. A proper hug was a bear hug, because that showed a positive and friendly attitude to her coworkers, whether male or female. He spoke loudly, and other co-workers had to pass them and could hear whatever they were saying.

To her, this was harassment at the workplace. But perhaps he had a different idea about what he considered as workplace harassment. To him, a big hug showed that you towed the company motto that you were all family, and you hugged co-workers like they were family.

It was a horrible feeling to stand there and be lectured while people she knew passed by. It was also humiliating when he didn’t like her first hug and he had told her to redo the hug. He had demonstrated the “correct way” by hugging her again in a chummy, big brotherly way before taking her aside for a talk.

As the supervisor’s boss spoke, she weighed her options in her head. It was a startup company, so there was no HR department to take grievances to. Even if there was an HR department, she didn’t want to complain and be fired. After all, she was a new hire still on probation.

Live in the Present but Remember Your Past

Maybe the boss thought he was trying to encourage her to be more co-worker friendly, but as a man, he was also oblivious. That one incident triggered her memories of men in the past who used hugging for a power play. For example, the friend who wanted a girlfriend and when she turned him down, he insisted on a friendly, body slamming bear hug. Or the date who insisted on a big, smothering hug when he realized the first date had gone badly and she hadn’t liked him but he was crazy about her.

Had she been free to choose, she would have ended the first date with just a goodbye. At most, she would have offered a cool, formal hug. Things were awkward with her friend when he confessed his feelings for her. She felt sicker inside when she realized he mistakenly thought she was half his age – and he liked that even more.

When the boss’s boss insisted on that hug, her old memories rushed back, of men who exerted control in a physical way and disguised it as social etiquette. Sure, the boss was trying to promote treating your co-workers as your brothers and sisters.  However, people are not a blank slate.

They come with a past. In my friend’s case, a “talk” to promote a positive attitude at work felt like workplace harassment. It brought back memories of those men who didn’t take rejection well and wanted a goodbye gesture that made her uncomfortable.

She hadn’t spoken her true thoughts out loud. She accepted her boss’s lecture in silence. She was always accepting things when she should have spoken her mind. Those men had made her uncomfortable and tried to make it okay to invite themselves into her personal space.

It’s not like she’s a cold fish. She will bear hug a close male friend or relative because she feels they have earned her trust to be in that personal space. For male co-workers, it was the same. They needed to earn her trust first.

Bottom Line

The lesson she shares now, is speak your mind. Keeping a job is not worth the silence. One person’s comfort level is not the standard for everyone’s comfort level. If you’re not a “hugger” it doesn’t mean you have self esteem issues, and no co-worker can force you to change those types of values. Speak your mind, she says, because that’s what truly strengthens your self worth.

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